Privacy Policy

Effective 11 June 2026

This page explains our privacy policy, in plain English. It describes what data we collect, when we collect it, why we collect it, and how we protect it. If you want to see your data, or change it, delete it, receive a copy of it, or complain about it, you can. We want you to understand what we do, and the ethical principles that guide what we do.

1. Who we are and what we do

So How Pte Ltd, a company incorporated in Singapore.

We provide tools, assessments, learning experiences, and coaching services for personal and professional development. Here, we refer to them as 'products'. Our direct-to-consumer products are purchased and delivered online at sohow.sg and its subdomains. When you interact with our products we will create, and then add to or modify, a unique Development Profile just for you. It will contain some personal data.

We are the data controller for the personal data described here. Our primary obligation is to Singapore's Personal Data Protection Act 2012 (PDPA) pdpc.gov.sg. If you reach us from the EU or UK, we also recognise your rights under the GDPR.

2. The design principle that protects you

We have designed our technology stack so that no single system can identify you AND read your Development Profile at the same time.

In plain terms: the system that knows your real name and email is separate from the system that knows about your work with us — conversations, check-ins, learning progress, assessment results etc. The systems share only an anonymous customer identifier that is meaningless without crossing a strict access boundary.

This separation is our primary privacy control. It's stronger than any single contract or policy could be because even if one part of our stack were compromised, your real identity and your Development Profile would not be exposed together.

The same principle applies when we use AI to help generate responses (see §5).

3. What data we collect, and why

When you create an account

DataWhyLawful basis
Your display name (can be a pseudonym)To personalise your experienceConsent
Your email addressAccount access, receipts, service communicationContract
Your Google or Apple OAuth identifierTo authenticate youContract
Your purchased product(s) or subscription tier and statusTo deliver what you've paid forContract
Your payment processor customer referenceTo link receipts and renewalsContract

When you use a product

DataWhyLawful basis
Birth date, time, and town of birth (Untangle symbolic lens only)To derive a report we call 'The Pattern' for use in active imagination exercisesConsent
Keyed responses to tools & assessments (e.g. 12Tones, 24Six, Big5 Aspects)To create insights you may want to include in your development workConsent
Summaries of your conversations with our AI chatbot (we keep the summary, not the raw conversation)To identify specific focus areas for development and maintain continuity across sessionsConsent
Invoice and payment historyFor Singapore accounting and tax record-keeping purposesLegal obligation

What we deliberately do not collect

4. Who we share data with

We don't sell your data. We don't share it with advertisers or researchers. We don't have an internal "data team" looking for patterns to monetise. The only reason we store your data at all is because it's needed to deliver our products to you.

We use a small number of service providers. Each is bound to handle your data on our behalf only, and not for their own purposes.

CategoryWhat they doNotes
InfrastructureOur database and application hosting (Google Cloud Platform)Singapore (asia-southeast1)
AuthenticationSign-in via Google or Apple (Firebase Authentication)Global Google infrastructure — OAuth tokens only, no profile data
AI processingAssessment tool processing and conversational responses for SeanishPer the architectural separation in §5 — pseudonymised content only
Payment processingCards, bank transfers, and local payment methodsPCI-DSS compliant; we never see card numbers
EmailTransactional and marketing email deliveryEU-hosted
Email validationPeriodic deliverability check on list operationsEmail addresses only

Some of the categories above involve service providers whose specific identity may change from time to time (AI processing, payment processing, email). We maintain a current list of named providers in our operational documentation. We'll share it on request, and we'll notify active customers if a provider in the list changes.

5. AI processing — what we send and what we don't

Many of our interfaces use an AI chatbot called Seanish. The chatbot can do different things in different contexts and uses third-party AI processing services to help generate conversational responses. The chatbot is trained in our frameworks but it is not a coach, therapist, or adviser, and we do not describe what it does as coaching. (See our Terms of Service for what Seanish is and isn't.)

The important part: our architecture deliberately keeps your real identity out of every AI request.

What the AI service may receiveWhat it never receives
Your chosen display name (can be a pseudonym)Never your real full name
Your derived Untangle symbolic lens patternNever your date, time or place of birth
Parts of your Development ProfileNever your payment details
An anonymous customer identifierNever your phone number, address, or contact information

Re-linking AI-facing data to a real person would require access to a separate accounts system that the AI service cannot reach. This architectural separation is our primary control under PDPA's data-minimisation principle. It travels with us if we change AI providers.

The AI services we use operate under commercial API terms and do not use your conversation content to train their models.

6. International data transfer

Our infrastructure is in Singapore. Some service providers process data in other jurisdictions.

Under PDPA, we must ensure overseas service providers handle your data responsibly. For the AI processing providers, the architectural separation in §5 does that work — what we send isn't personally identifying in the first place. For other providers, we use processors that operate under GDPR or equivalent standards.

7. How long we keep your data

We keep data for as long as we need it to deliver the products to you — or as long as we are legally required to keep it. When that ends, we delete it. Not archive it, delete it.

DataRetention
Active session conversationsKept only while the session is active. Once the session ends, we summarise and delete the raw conversation.
Per-session summaries and accumulated session memoryDuration of your subscription, plus 90 days
Coaching notes (face-to-face coaching only)12 months from the session date
12Tones check-ins (raw)24 months rolling
Goals and longer-arc recordsDuration of your subscription, plus 90 days
Account record (email, sign-in identifier)Duration of your account, plus 90 days
Invoices and payment records7 years from last transaction (Singapore regulations)

When you close your account, we delete your platform-side data within 30 days — or immediately if you ask. Invoice records are retained for the legally required period and then deleted.

8. Your rights

You have the right to:

To exercise any of these, email contact@sohow.sg. We respond within 30 days, usually faster. There's no fee for the first request in any 12-month period.

If you believe we've mishandled your data and we can't resolve it together, you can complain to Singapore's Personal Data Protection Commission. EU/UK customers can complain to their national authority.

9. Security

All data is encrypted at rest (Google Cloud default) and in transit (TLS). Production credentials are held in Google Cloud Secret Manager with audit logging and least-privilege access. Administrative access requires multi-factor authentication. Production and development environments are strictly separated. We don't share credentials between people or systems.

No security is perfect. If we have a data breach involving your data, you'll hear from us — quickly, within the periods PDPA and (where applicable) GDPR require. We'll tell you what happened, what we know, what we did, and what (if anything) you need to do.

10. Cookies and analytics

Many sites treat you as the product. Tracking pixels, advertising IDs, behavioural profiles sold to networks you've never heard of. We don't do that.

The only cookies we set are the ones strictly needed to keep you signed in. Our website analytics are first-party only (i.e. we run it ourselves, we don't use a service) — they tell us which pages people visit, not who visited them, and they don't set tracking cookies or follow you anywhere else. We don't run third-party advertising trackers on any customer-facing surface.

We make creative use of technology — including AI — but we want your experience with us to feel like a human experience.

11. Age

You must be 18 or older to create an account or buy anything from us. Singapore's age of contractual capacity is 18; below that age, we cannot lawfully contract with you for paid products.

We do not knowingly accept signups from anyone under 18. If we discover an account belongs to someone under 18, we will close it and delete the data — write to contact@sohow.sg if you believe this has happened.

GDPR (EU/UK) has stricter rules for under-16s around parental consent. Because we don't accept under-18s at all, those rules rarely apply to us — but if a younger user has somehow signed up, we close the account and delete the data, same as any under-18 account.

12. Changes to this policy

We update this page when something material changes. The Last updated date at the top says when. For changes that affect existing customers — a new AI provider, a new sharing relationship, a change of jurisdiction — we also email you.

13. Contact

For anything to do with your data, write to contact@sohow.sg.

Postal: So How Pte Ltd, 1 Wallich Street, #14-01 Guoco Tower, Singapore 078881.